| Online Dating Safety Tips |
- Guard Your Anonymity Choose a non-identifiable
screen name (and keep it clean - otherwise you are asking for the
wrong sort of attention). Never give out any personal information at
the beginning and when you are ready to tell someone your real name
and/or where you live - stick to first names only and be vague about
your address (just your state is enough - they aren't coming for
dinner - just yet - so they don't need to know your how to find your
house).
- Show Patience
You may be anxious to start a new relationship but that doesn't mean
you should rush into meetings with strangers. Take the time to make
sure you're ready to move from the online world to an offline
encounter.
- Talk on the Phone
There's no need to jump from online chats to a face-to-face meeting.
Use the phone as an additional checkpoint. You can tell a lot about
people by their mannerisms on the phone. If your gut says something
is amiss, call-off the get-together.
- Ask for a Photo
While some people may go so far as to send a fake photo, in most
cases you'll get the real deal.
- Choose a Safe Place
If you decide to meet face-to-face, be sure to pick a safe location,
full of people, and familiar to you. Most predators will avoid
taking action in broad daylight, surrounded by people.
- Use Common Sense
It may sound obvious, but if you feel something is not right, listen
to your gut and get out of the situation. Use your common sense to
make good decisions and you'll lean toward meeting the right people.
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